There is no such thing as "the gay life style." In reality, there are many gay life styles, just as there are many straight life styles.
Sex is not the gay life style. Sex is no more consuming for gay and bisexual people than for straight people. Queer Christians have a life style that is very much like other Christians. A balanced Christian gay life style is centered in spirituality and includes sexuality, humanitarian service, being part of gay and church communities, study of the Word of God, worship, leisure, family and career.
Queer Christians have a better understanding of
what it means to serve God in times of persecution than many other contemporary Christians. That is no small difference! And the difference shows in the lives and the daily life style of gay Christians who are positive about who they are.
The diagram below illustrates a balance in the gay Christian's life style. Click on any aspect of life style to read more.